30 July 2009

Update from Katie

Ok… Ken has had surgery to remove the tumor from his tongue, and lymph nodes from his neck removed and biopsied. Eaten more than his fair share of mashed potatoes and applesauce (yes… mixing them together, as well! Whatever floats your boat, I suppose…). I realize, there will come a time that instead of turning up my nose at such things, I will be begging him to do it, if all it means is that he’ll eat!

Next steps involve preparing himself for Chemo/radiation. To be honest, for many people, it is not the cancer that is the killer. It’s the treatments to FIGHT the cancer, and its side effects: Worst of all being the sore throat he is going to develop. It’s been said it will be the worst sore throat of his entire life. Along with what may appear to be a minor sunburn, extreme dry skin, and thick saliva (while his salivary glands are still functioning…) and eventually loss of taste. All of these side effects are going to lead to the one issue that will become paramount to his existence: whether he can or will eat. Thus… the need for the “insurance policy” of having a feeding tube inserted.

Let’s back up a step… Chemo will be administered as a liquid given in IV form. And rather than have to find a vein each and every time, patients have a “porta-cath” inserted into a vein near their clavicle. THAT little gem is basically unnoticed by the rest of the world… only the patient and his caretakers will know it’s there. (A “port” is nested into his vein, and left under his skin. It is pricked each time needed, rather than a full-blown venapuncture.) But it keeps him from becoming a human pin cushion. Chemo treatments are administered through it, and blood can be drawn from it.

So, it was determined that he would have both of these items, the porta-cath and the feeding tube, inserted during the same outpatient procedure. He’s got the O.R. time booked, and already under general anesthesia. (To note: the feeding tube is inserted at this stage of the game for a number of reasons… which is why I referred to it as an “insurance policy”. If it is inserted while the patient is still healthy, then it is in place IF and when it becomes necessary. When the sore throat precludes swallowing. When there’s no taste, and salivation has made chewing and swallowing next to impossible. However, weight loss can be severely detrimental to his recovery and he will need every bit of his strength “in battle”. If you wait until it’s needed, to decide to insert it, the patient can decline so far in those ensuing 10 days; treatment may be delayed, in addition to trying to perform surgery on a body that is compromised. Let’s not, and say we did. One feeding tube, coming up… or so we thought.)

Yesterday, Doctor Williams informed me when he came out that he was unable to insert the tube for Ken. Dr. Williams is not a gastro-enterologist, and this is not his specialty. They ask him to do it at the same time as the port, mainly as a matter of convenience. He is capable… just not the specialist. Anyway, he simply felt that given what he could visualize and feel, he was not confident that he could place the tube without nicking or otherwise damaging an intestine, or any other organ that might have been slightly in the way. He made the judgment call to ONLY place the port yesterday, and he is referring Ken to the GI specialists for feeding tube placement. (Trust me… Ken’s kind of ecstatic about this… but I assured him: He will have that tube. I have been told too many times now how important it is, and it will be a TEMPORARY inconvenience [I know, MY words… not in MY body. Easy for me to say? Perhaps…]. It’s basically yet another speed bump to hurdle.)

So, as of right now, radiation is scheduled to start on August 11, and chemo should begin within days of that. Radiation is a 20-minute treatment, 5 days a week, and chemo is roughly a 4-hour infusion once a week. The plan is to have the feeding tube inserted by next week sometime. Just still waiting for the “professionals’” to get back to us… gotta love insurance companies!

29 July 2009

to bring everyone up to speed...

Greetings and salutations! Welcome to 'Slinger's spot. I have brought the blog back. The main reason for it is to keep everyone on "Team Gunslinger" (that's you) as up to date as possible on what is going on with me and my battle to hand cancer a big, fat loss. I won't be the only one posting updates. Katie will be posting from time to time, not only with updates, but her take on things or to possibly fill things in that I have missed.

As you know, I have tongue cancer (it is considered a head and neck cancer). The clinical term is squamous cell carcinoma. This kind of cancer is mostly associated with heavy smokers and drinkers. Needless to say my doctors are at a loss as to why I have this since I don't fall into either category. They also checked a couple of other things, but all those indicators came back negative.

Here is the condensed version of what has gone on so far: Starting in March after a bout with the flu, my neck and tongue were bothering me, but I dealt with it. I thought I was dealing with it pretty good, but in April Katie cornered me and told me that for the last month my attitude was just like it was when I worked 3rd shift; horrible and my breath was even worse. Not just morning breath horrible either. I was told in no uncertain terms that she was making a doctors appointment for me and I was going.

Since I value my life, I went to see our regular doctor, Dr. Digeralamo (Dr. D). You know things are bad when a doctor is saying things like "Oh, my." and "I've never seen anything like this." and calling other doctors in to get another opinion and they are just as lost. Dr. D. referred me to a E.N.T. doc, Dr. Williams. Doc Williams did a biopsy in his office and those results came back as "inconclusive". He then scheduled a bigger biopsy for me to be done as outpatient surgery. That was done June 10th. The results came back June 15th. (June 15th was a heck of a day in our house. Not only did I get the cancer diagnosis, but Lilli's softball team won their league championship that night.). We went back to Doc Williams on June 18th and he scheduled surgery for June 26th. He removed the tumor and some lymph nodes. The tumor was bigger than he thought. It was 4.5 centimeters and reached the midline and root of my tongue. We got the news that the cancer spread to the lymph nodes and that I would need both radiation and chemotherapy on July 2nd. Since then it has been doctor appointment after doctor appointment getting everything in place so we can start the treatments. There are going to be a total of 33-36 radiation treatments daily (Mon-Fri) and 6-8 chemo treatments weekly.

Earlier in the blog I mentioned that I opened this blog back up for everyone on "Team Gunslinger". I'm sure you're wondering just who is on the team. The qualifications for who is on the team is anyone who has offered help, prayers, good thoughts and support. In short, you are on "Team Gunslinger". Yes, I have to fight the battle, but I know that I cannot do it by myself. I am able to fight and have this awesomely positive attitude because of all the love and support from my family and friends. The support I have gotten so far from everyone has truly humbled me and I am deeply touched by it all.

Now, there are a few rules in place for the team. Here they are:

1) No Sad tears. "Are you crying? There's no crying in beating cancer!" The only time we can cry is when the fight is over and we have beaten cancer. Then we can cry all the happy tears we want.

2) No negative attitudes. Team Gunslinger is a positive team with one goal. Beating cancer. You cannot beat cancer feeling sorry for yourself or focusing on the negative. When we run into a negative we will do one of two things: try to turn into a positive. If that can't be done, then we will deal with it when it is time to deal with it.

That's it for now. Like I said earlier, Katie & I will do our best to keep this updated.

Ken